03 4 / 2013
"Love is not a feeling. Love is a *choice* that you make every day."
21 4 / 2012
One thing I hate about any and all relationships. Family, friends, ANY relationship that exists… You live through something or you’ve seen something happen numerous times. But when it comes to love relationships, you can tell them, everyone could tell them, God himself could come down and set fire to the earth to send you a message, and they won’t ever really believe you until they try it out for themselves. I was the same way when I was with my ex. A people pleaser who wanted to make everything end perfectly without problem for any one. But it never works and everyone else who didn’t have love blinders on was right. It sucks being on the other side of the fence this time, watching them suffer and not being able to change it. Having to let them live life and learn the same hard lessons. Makes me want to be a hermit.
But that’s just how people are. We all think we are different. We think “I’ll be fine. I can be the one who does this right.” And then we realize, we aren’t all that different. We can’t be the perfect person.
Like I said… Sometimes, being a friend sucks. Glad that the good times outweigh the bad.